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  • “Wait, Is This a Date?” Season Two FINALE: Long Distance Crushes with Elise Bauman
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    “Wait, Is This a Date?” Season Two
    FINALE: Long Distance Crushes with Elise Bauman

    Christina Tucker
    Sep 7, 2022
  • WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Chingy Nea's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Bottoming" with guest Chingy Nea" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
    dating

    “Wait, Is This a Date?”
    Podcast Episode 209: Bottoming with Chingy

    Christina Tucker
    Aug 31, 2022
  • WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Jordan Crucchiola's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Celebrity Crushes" with guest Jordan Crucchiola" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
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    “Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode
    208: When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Partner

    Drew Burnett Gregory
    Aug 24, 2022
  • A purple background with lime green bubble lettering that says WITAD? and a bubble neon circle says "Special Episode: Mailbag Minisode #1" next to a photo of Christina and Drew, and emojis scattered throughout
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    “Wait, Is This a Date?”
    Podcast Special Episode: Mailbag Minisode #1

    Drew Burnett Gregory
    Aug 17, 2022
  • “Wait, Is This a Date?” Season Two FINALE: Long Distance Crushes with Elise Bauman
    dating

    “Wait, Is This a Date?” Season Two
    FINALE: Long Distance Crushes with Elise Bauman

    Christina Tucker
    Sep 7, 2022
  • WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Chingy Nea's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Bottoming" with guest Chingy Nea" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
    dating

    “Wait, Is This a Date?”
    Podcast Episode 209: Bottoming with Chingy

    Christina Tucker
    Aug 31, 2022
  • WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Jordan Crucchiola's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Celebrity Crushes" with guest Jordan Crucchiola" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
    dating

    “Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode
    208: When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Partner

    Drew Burnett Gregory
    Aug 24, 2022
  • A purple background with lime green bubble lettering that says WITAD? and a bubble neon circle says "Special Episode: Mailbag Minisode #1" next to a photo of Christina and Drew, and emojis scattered throughout
    dating

    “Wait, Is This a Date?”
    Podcast Special Episode: Mailbag Minisode #1

    Drew Burnett Gregory
    Aug 17, 2022
Elise Bauman
podcast
“Wait, Is This a Date?” Season Two FINALE: Long Distance Crushes with Elise Bauman
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Season Two FINALE: Long Distance Crushes with Elise Bauman

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to get through this thing called… a season finale! And to celebrate that ending, who better to come on and discuss the joys…
Christina Tucker —
Sep 7, 2022
podcast
Wait Is This a Date
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Chingy Nea's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Bottoming" with guest Chingy Nea" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 209: Bottoming with Chingy

Let’s make some noise for the bottoms in the house! (It’s me, the bottom in the house.)
Christina Tucker —
Aug 31, 2022
podcast
Wait Is This a Date
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Jordan Crucchiola's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Celebrity Crushes" with guest Jordan Crucchiola" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 208: When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Partner

Bringing someone home to meet your parents is such a trope it’s become an entire genre of movie. But for many queer people there are two families to introduce to…
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Aug 24, 2022
podcast
Wait Is This a Date
A purple background with lime green bubble lettering that says WITAD? and a bubble neon circle says "Special Episode: Mailbag Minisode #1" next to a photo of Christina and Drew, and emojis scattered throughout
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Special Episode: Mailbag Minisode #1

From how to have a first lesbian experience to how to be horny and demisexual! If you’re thinking hmm these queers seem to know what they’re talking about then go…
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Aug 17, 2022
podcast
Wait Is This a Date
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Samantha Irby's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Hygiene" with guest Samantha Irby" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 207: Hygiene

Ah, bodies. These sacks of meat, bones and skin that we must drag around until we come up with a better way to get through this thing called life. We…
Christina Tucker —
Aug 10, 2022
podcast
Wait Is This a Date
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Jordan Crucchiola's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Celebrity Crushes" with guest Jordan Crucchiola" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 206: Celebrity Crushes

Celebrity crushes mean more to queer people than they do to straight people. They can be our first expressions of queer desire or our first expressions of gender envy. They…
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Aug 3, 2022
grace lavery
podcast
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Grace Lavery's face in a close up is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Public Relationships" with guest Grace Lavery" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 205: Public Relationships

This week we’ve brought on someone in a gaymous power couple: Grace Lavery! But being in a public relationship isn’t just the joys of ambitious4ambitious. There’s also the matter of…
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Jul 27, 2022
brittani nichols
podcast
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Brittani Nichol wearing a jean jacket is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Partner's Pets" with guest Brittani Nichols" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 204: Partner’s Pets

Animals, like people, have their own personalities and should be taken on a case-by-case basis. (AKA wherein Drew bravely says that snakes are maybe a bit sexy thanks to a…
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Jul 20, 2022
bisexuality
gaby dunn
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Gaby Dunn with short pink hair wearing a purple collared shirt is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Dating Men" with guest Gaby Dunn" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 203: Dating Men

Whether you’re a lesbian who dated men as a teen or a queer person who dates lots of genders, our community is far too mixed and gender is far too…
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Jul 13, 2022
podcast
Wait Is This a Date
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Carmen Phillips wearing a black and white head wrap and tortoise shell glasses is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Boundaries" with guest Carmen Phillips" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 202: Boundaries

When it comes to boundaries, our strengths are our weaknesses and our weaknesses are our strengths. (Also let us talk about Raven Symoné’s chaotic gay TikTok, shall we?)
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Jul 6, 2022
podcast
Wait Is This a Date
WITAD? in yellow is against a purple background. A photo of Laneia Jones wearing a white sleeveless shirt is below. Next to the photo in a yellow bubble it says "Mommi Culture" with guest Laneia Jones" and then surrounding are various emoji stickers.
dating

“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 201: Mommi Culture

Honey, we’re home!!!! “Wait, Is This a Date?” is back and we’re talking all things mommi culture! And all things dating as an actual mom!
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Jun 29, 2022
podcast
Wait Is This a Date
Feature for Wait Is This a Date Submit to our mailbag episodes! Season 2! Features fun and lighthearted emojis over a pink background with a little photo cutout featuring a photo of two queer people laughing and smiling together over something on a phone.
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A+ Members Can Submit to the Wait Is This a Date Mailbag!

Imagine hearing your own voice on WITAD. Personally, I think it sounds thrilling.
Nico —
Jun 29, 2022
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