Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: How To Plan a Lesbian Wedding Ceremony

Somewhere in between thrifting 50 floral print hankies and meeting with the queer chef who is catering my wedding, I realized that I had to actually… figure out what I…

Vanessa —

May 11, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: How To Save Money on Your Lesbian Wedding

There is no right or wrong way to host a wedding — but when you’re thinking about how to save money at your gay wedding, it’s a good idea to…

Vanessa —

Apr 27, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: Why Am I So Stressed About a Wedding Hashtag?

I learned some weird things about wedding hashtags while fixating on this.

Vanessa —

Apr 13, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: How to Elope

When you elope it’s fantastically freeing to only focus on yourselves.

Kristen —

Mar 30, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: Let’s Talk About Wedding Registries

Your loved ones want to get you the things you want, and they can only do that if you tell them what that is!

Vanessa —

Mar 16, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: What It’s Like To Be Queer and Engaged

If you’re wondering what some queer people who aren’t me are thinking about when it comes to getting engaged and wedding planning (or not wedding planning), this installment of Blush…

Vanessa —

Mar 2, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: How One Fat Femme Bought Her Dream Wedding Dress

The reason I wanted to write about this experience is explicitly to say to other fat brides that buying a dress does not have to be a negative experience.

Vanessa —

Feb 16, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: You’re a Lesbian and You Want To Buy an Engagement Ring

“There are so many ways to individualize your ring and make it super unique for your relationship and yourself.”

Vanessa —

Feb 2, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: I’m Writing a Lesbian Wedding Column and You’re Invited

Welcome to Blush & Bashful, a new biweekly column about planning a queer wedding.

Vanessa —

Jan 19, 2023