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Matching Holiday Pajama Sets for Your Super Cute Queer Fam

Sa'iyda Shabazz
Nov 21, 2023

When my partner and I got together, one of the things I was most excited about were the matching family pajamas for Christmas we were going to get. My son was getting older, and I wanted to start creating holiday traditions for us. Matching pajamas was at the top of the list either way, but I loved that we were going to be a cute family of three in our matching holiday pjs. Every year since, around mid-November, I start scoping out our family’s annual matching holiday pajama sets for the year.

There are a few things I look for in matching family pajamas. Fit is important. When compiling this list, I included links to each collection of pajamas, which means you get to see all of the different fits for that style. The Children’s Place has unisex fits for adults, which is nice, but since unisex usually means it will be cute for male bodies, sizing is tricky for me. I tend to go for a women’s cut, and my partner varies depending on style. She often wears men’s clothes, but sometimes men’s pajamas are too big for her. Sometimes you have multiple style options within one design, but we tend to go for the two piece snug fit. My kid isn’t going for anything with buttons and I don’t do onesies, so it’s just the easiest option for us.

Design is also an important part! So far, we’ve done llamas, bears, penguins, and this year: gnomes. I don’t like ones that are overly Christmasy, and Santa designs are usually some of the first to sell out. I also don’t like things that are too vague, like plaid or buffalo print. I can get that any time of year; I want my holiday pajamas to look like they’re for a holiday. I’ve tried to include a variety of styles, but you can also use these as jumping off points to see what else is out there! (Full disclosure: I didn’t include Old Navy this year because they didn’t group their pajamas in a user-friendly way, but also a lot of the fun prints have sold out in many styles. If you still want to check, you can look here.) I also included a pair of Hanukkah pajamas and New Year’s Eve pajamas.

There are a lot of sales happening right now, so I’ve included the prices at the time of writing this, and the prices only reflect the cost of the most expensive pair in the set, so you’ll have to click through to get a more accurate idea of how much it’ll cost. Be sure to check each site for any potential coupons or deals that may be happening to get a better idea of exactly what the cost will be. I’ve also noted which styles also have some sort of pet accessory. Our puppy also gets in on the matching family pjs!


We Are Family PJs ($60)

The Mariah Carey family pajama set that says WE ARE FAMILY


Jammies For Your Families Frenchie Family PJs ($23)

a large family wearing matching Frenchie Christmas pajamas


Santa’s Helpers PJs ($28)

a family in matching santa pajamas


Feliz Navidad PJs ($25)

two parents and a toddler in matching Feliz Navidad pajamas


Nice List Black Santa PJs ($60, also has matching bandana for pets)

two parents and two kids in matching Black santa pajama sets


Mix It Multicolored Trees PJs ($20)

a mother and toddler with matching geometric color pajama sets


LC Lauren Conrad Jammies For Your Families® Fair Isle PJs ($22)

two parents and three kids in matching green holiday pajama sets


Reindeer Family PJs ($32)

a dog, two kids, and two parents in matching reindeer pajama sets


Christmas Gnomies PJs ($60, has matching pjs for dogs)

two parents and three kids in matching gnome pajamas


Checks & Trucks Buffalo PJs ($28)

two parents and two kids in matching black and red plaid pants and Christmas-themed shirts


Bring Light to this Night, Dreidel Spinning Bright PJs ($25, also has matching bandana for pets)

two parents and two toddles in matching blue pajama sets with dreidels on them


Holiday Toss Family PJs ($20)

three adults in matching holiday pajama sets


Colorful Plaid PJs ($30, also has matching bandana for pets)

two parents and a toddler in matching color blocked plaid pajama sets


LC Lauren Conrad Jammies For Your Families® Aqua Winter Tree PJs ($22)

two parents and a toddler wearing matching christmas tree pajama sets


New Year Family PJs ($20)

two parents and a baby in matching black New Year's Eve pajamas